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Guys, we can stop looking. I’ve officially found the dumbest quote of all time:
“Any self-respecting woman wants to be thin, and to be thin you need to spend your life on a diet.”
I’m a pacifist, but if I met this person in real life I might actually slap her. Yes she’s pathetic & I feel bad for her sad life & lack of self-worth, but I mean who fucking writes an article like this? And it’s not like she’s just saying that SHE feels the need to diet, she’s basically saying all women (sexist much?) need to diet or else they’re a failure of a person. What the fuck kind of fucked up logic is that? I get that she was overweight as a kid/teen & that probably fucked her up mentally, but I mean SERIOUSLY! I am pretty fucked up mentally myself, but I would never say or even think anything like that. She is practically encouraging people (well, only women, not men) to take up unhealthy eating behaviours just to lose weight. It’d be a totally different scenario if she was encouraging healthy eating as a way of dieting, but I mean “the Polo diet”? What the fuck. And saying things like “I fainted with hunger on one occasion - a minor hitch, eclipsed by the fact that I was being asked out on lots of dates.” & “Of course, constantly denying myself food was not and is not easy, but it has always brought enough rewards to make it worthwhile.” that is just… I mean I understand feeling that way, but the way she says it, it’s like she’s telling girls they should lose weight by all means necesary & any suffering caused by it is irrelevant because you’ll be skinny. I can’t even see this as a woman with an eating disorder, because the way she talks about it is not how people who have suffered with real eating disorders talk about them. She obviously has an extremely distorted idea of beauty, as well as success & relationships, & an incredibly damaged sense of self-worth. Funny how she talks about self-respect when she doesn’t seem to have much of it. That makes me feel bad for her. But the fact that she is trying to push this bullshit on other people, whether anyone takes it seriously or not, brings me back to my original point of wanting to slap her in the face. What. The fuck. Is wrong with you.
Rant over.
I am so tempted to make a lesbian joke but I will retain myself.
I don’t care what people say about being “too thin” & I know that it’s not realistic for me personally to achieve this kind of body in a healthy way, but I still think this is beautiful (that does not mean I think heavier bodies are ugly) & there will always be a part of me that hopes I’ll be able to look like this one day.
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Lesley Kinzel (via curvesahead)
I will always reblog this because it is so so important.
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I just want to nail this to every stable surface I can find. I cannot count the amount of times that I’ve seen fat folks being encouraged, cajoled, and even forced into behaviors that would be recognized as disordered eating/exercising patterns in thin folks.
Pretty much everything that’s done on shows like The Biggest Loser would be called out as pro-ana/pro-orthorexia in a thin person. Exercising past the point that it hurts, to the point where you’re throwing up, even injuring yourself? Berating yourself because you didn’t lose ENOUGH weight this week? Constantly talking about how fat is weakness and thinness will make everything better, about how you can’t stand to be your current weight anymore? Emphasis on weight as a sign of how much control, strength, and worth you have? Viewing food as bad, as a temptation to sin? Constant sharing and talking about tips on how to minimize food intake, how to lose weight?
That sounds exactly like every pro-ana/pro-mia blog I’ve ever seen. It’s also what fat people are told we need to be doing to ourselves until we’re thin.
(via madamethursday)
^This. this. this. this this this.
(via dawnthebrawn)
Yes. Yes yes yes yes yes.
Then we wonder why so many people give up when they can’t adhere to the disordered regime.
We need to be promoting and encouraging a lifestyle abundant in healthy food and fun, functional movement rather than deprivation.
(via farewellflub)
I can not with the accuracy of this. So many times I used to think “I’m not anorexic, I WISH I was anorexic, I just don’t eat because I always eat too much”. I remember walking into the ED clinic feeling so embarassed because surely all those skinny girls would wonder what I was doing there since I was clearly too fat to have an eating disorder, even though I was clinically underweight. People really need to stop acting like your weight is always a problem unless it’s “normal”. Being overweight does not make you any less capable of being happy & having an awesome life, & neither does being underweight. Yes it’s true that it has some negative effects on your physical health, but mental health should always come first. Don’t force yourself to eat or exercise less/more unless you genuinly want to. Other people can go fuck themselves, this is about you.
(Source: xojane.com)
People often talk about certain body figures being better than others. Like, curvy girls are often deemed more attractive than skinny girls, or vice versa. Some people say that everyone is beautiful. I agree with that to an extent, but only because everyone has a different concept of beauty. A…
Omg. I love this.
^^This.
Although I still want to be skinny.
This is Haylee. I met her online recently and was given permission to share her story. Shes 16 years old and has been suffering with Anorexia Nervosa (binge purge subtype) for 10 years now. She has permanent heart problems, shes has 2 heart attacks since January, and was in a coma in March. Shes constantly in the hospital due to her eating disorder, and shes spent 7 months in the hospital this year. It’s come to my attention that there are a lot of people on tumblr with “pro-anorexic” blogs who seem to WANT this disease and give “tips” to their followers to “become anorexic”. I want you to look at this photo, at this young girl who has wasted 10 years of her life in agony and ask yourself, how can you be pro this? How can you encourage others to do this to themselves? Please reblog this and help it get around to other blogs to show the reality of eating disorders and the pain they cause and put a stop to “pro anorexia” blogs.